November 14, 2008

Your One Place

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Your One Place - Mount Fiji, Japan

Here’s a fun game to play: think about one place in the world that you’d like to visit someday. You don’t have to make a long list, just think of one single place.

Even including people who don’t travel that much, most of us can think of somewhere we’d like to see before we die.

There are a couple of easy rules for this game:

1) You only get one place

2) It has to be somewhere you haven’t been yet

Those are the only rules; the rest is up to you. It can be a city, a country, an island, a continent, or just one big mountain.

You may already have an idea of where you’d like to go, but if not, there are plenty of options out there. Look at a globe or a good map if you need help deciding.

Once you have your one place, it’s time to bring it closer to you, and bring you closer to it. You didn’t think this would be strictly theoretical, did you?

The 3-Year Deadline

If your one place is on your “someday” list, let’s give it some kind of deadline, even if it’s far in the future. How about three years? Do you think that you could find a way to visit your one place sometime between tomorrow and three years from now?

Most of us can probably move that deadline up to two years, one year, or maybe even sooner. But to keep it fair, we’ll use three years as the outside limit.

I’ve been to a lot of places in the world, and I’ve found that even the furthest destinations on earth usually cost less than $2,500 to get to and back. Most of the time, it’s a lot less—there are many countries I’ve gone to for less than $100—but for planning purposes, we’ll use the high end.

Even using the most extreme example—a $2,500 destination and three years to save for it—you will only need to save about $2 a day to get the funds for your trip. You’ll even have enough left over for meals and duty-free shopping!

(By the way, I realize that many people in the world live on less than $2 a day, but most of them won’t be reading this essay. My writing is for those of us who are pretty well-off.)

I use this example to prove that money isn’t what prevents many of us from going somewhere we’ve always wanted to.

Instead, most of us stay where we are because of inertia more than anything else. Even if you’re not ready to quit your job and go off the grid, you can probably do one thing to prepare for the visit to your one place.

The Next Action

To start the preparation, take the first single action you need to take to plan your trip.

You don’t need to buy a ticket or anything else. Just go to the bookstore and check out the travel section. Read the travel guide for your place in the café. If you prefer, look for books about your one place at the library, or ask someone who has been there to tell you about it.

Just do something.

And then you can plan the next thing—set up your three year, $2 a day savings fund, mark off a block of time far in the future, look for a travel companion, or whatever you need to do.

Building it out step by step, one action at a time, will help you get to your one place. It won’t just be a dream anymore. You’ll make it real, and in three years or less (probably a lot less), you can be wherever in the world you’d like to be.

Help Wanted

If you did this exercise or at least thought about it, where is your one place? Feel free to share your answer with everyone else who is reading along. If you’re going to really plan for making it happen, post up your next action as well.

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62 Responses to “Your One Place”

  • November 14, 2008

    guinness416

    Bhutan, please. I’ve already done the info-gathering and budgeting, just need to find the time …

  • November 14, 2008

    Danny

    Iceland. It’s an old dream. I already own a book about it. Gift from an ex-girlfriend four years ago. It’s definitaly an old dream. Three years? I have a lot of projects for those next three years. But why not? If I end not going, the money would already been saved. That in itself will be an achievement. I’ll thought about the timing after those three years.

  • November 14, 2008

    Chris

    @Guinness,

    Bhutan is on my list too. Well, technically, everywhere is on my list, but I’m especially excited about Bhutan since it really is off-the-grid.

    @Danny,

    It would be interesting to visit Iceland during the unfortunate aftermath of the economy’s collapse. I’m not sure if it would be a good time or a bad time to be there now, but IcelandAir usually has good fares from the East Coast.

  • November 14, 2008

    Crystal

    Ohhh, I’d so love to go to Asia and tour the Buddha statues and carvings, and visit the Buddhist monasteries there. I get such a feeling when I see these in photos…can’t imagine what it feel like to actually be there among them.

    Just $2 a day, huh?

  • November 14, 2008

    jkg

    Antartica.

    First step, to convince my husband.

  • November 14, 2008

    Chris Nakafevo

    Alaska. Definitely Alaska!

  • November 14, 2008

    Robyn

    It isn’t really off the beaten track, but all my life I’ve wanted to see the monuments and artifacts of ancient Egypt. I’m now planning to go within the next three years. I’ve been researching educational tours (where you spend the evenings learning and the days putting that learning into practice) and I have my traveling companion (she’s been there before). Can’t wait. After that, Pompeii and Herculaneum.

  • November 14, 2008

    Linnea

    Florence, Italy.

    I have an envelope with that written on the front. I just put $2.00 in it.

  • November 14, 2008

    Mogs

    I’m just preparing for a year of backpacking, so I chose a place that isn’t on my itinerary for next year. Socotra, an island belonging to Yemen that has the most amazing plant life. It looks weird and wonderful and I want to go so much.

  • November 14, 2008

    Chris

    @Crystal,

    Yeah, that’s definitely possible — and most of those places are very affordable once you actually get there.

    @Linnea,

    That’s awesome! Now you just have to keep putting the $2 in. :)

    @Mogs,

    Socotra definitely wins the award (so far) for most distant and hard to reach place! Wow.

  • November 14, 2008

    Alan

    Has to be somewhere I haven’t been yet? Eh, I’m breaking that rule, sorry Chris.

    Here’s why.

    Two years ago, I studied abroad in Nepal for 4 months. The last week of my trip, I was told by our academic adviser that, statistically, only 10% of students return to the country that they studied abroad in. 10%!

    At the time, I laughed at that statistic, knowing full-well that I would be back. Yet it’s been two years, and I still haven’t made an effort to return.

    Following Linnea’s move, here’s $2 to getting back to the place that fueled my love for travel and other cultures – Kathmandu!

  • November 14, 2008

    Gretchen Wegner

    I love this challenge, Chris! And I was surprised to have IRELAND be the first country to flash in my mind. How inspiring to think that within the next three years, I’ll be there! In fact, I immediately opened a new Mozilla tab and downloaded the Ireland chapter off the the Lonely Planet for only $4! I’m half way there… :-)

  • November 14, 2008

    Katherine Kunz

    Lake Victoria, Africa. I have no idea why — that’s just what popped into my head right now.

  • November 14, 2008

    Kathryn

    Iceland … in 2 years. I would love to celebrate our 20th anniversary (December 27th) under Northern Lights.

  • November 14, 2008

    NewWrldYankee

    I’ve always wanted to go to Mauritius and France, since I was taking French classes in middle school. It is a about time I made this happen. I’ve conquered most of Eastern Europe, should go western now, right? I can make it happen. It’s on Chris, it’s on!

  • November 14, 2008

    Michael

    Japan is my choice.

  • November 14, 2008

    Kristian

    Two years ago, on our first anniversary, my wife and I sat down in a restaurant and made a list of all the things we’d like to see and do with our lives. One item on the list was “travel abroad, preferably in Africa”. This summer we spent two weeks in Tanzania. Sitting in the Zanzibar Coffee House in Stone Town (thanks for the recommendation, Chris), we made a new list. Next year’s goal: Turkey. The next step: email my friend who lives there now and see if we can crash on his couch.

  • November 14, 2008

    Kat

    Hi Chris

    Just stumbled on your website and am lovng this first post! Consider yourself blogrolled.

    Mine is Patagonia. Doing a spot of travelling from Jan but it’s not on the itinerary this time. Saving it for when I can really get stuck in. One day!

    K

  • November 14, 2008

    Chris

    Thanks, everyone. I’ll check in after the weekend, but feel free to post in the meantime if you haven’t made it here until now.

  • November 14, 2008

    Jody

    Great Post! The Moon in 20-25 years, for my retirement present to myself.

  • November 14, 2008

    Jessica

    Vegas!! I feel kinda silly throwing out somewhere so common after everyone shooting out these exotic locations, but there is ONE reason that I’ve been dying to go to Vegas… The Beatles Cirque show LOVE.

    2$ a day is 14$ a week, hmm… and in three years I could be watching my show? Interesting :)

  • November 14, 2008

    The Wyman

    Australia- I plan to take my wife and get a free trip as a cruise speaker. Hopefully we can go down under on one ship and catch another on the way home. We will have to save up for the stay there. We joined a travel club that has one week stays in nice resorts for $399/week. We can use two per year. Plans are in gear.

  • November 14, 2008

    Graham

    Antarctica.

    I took some first actions, years ago, by getting cruise brochures and reading the Lonely Planet guide. Then harsh reality hit me – there are no budget options to Antarctica, and the sort of trip I dream of costs at least US$15000. It felt hard to justify even trying for that sort of goal while in the early stages of paying off a significant home loan.

    Instead I chose to pay extra money into the home loan, reducing the balance faster and saving a pile in interest. This has paid off, as redrawing some of the surplus has enabled me to study full time for a career change, something I couldn’t have afforded to do if I’d poured my money into a one-off trip.

    It’s a matter of working out our own priorities. For me, being able to live where I live and have the freedom to study for a new career (and still travel to a lot of less pricey places) mattered more than a one-off trip to Antarctica.

    The frozen continent remains a travel dream, but for me it might be a 10 or 20 year plan. I’m happy to wait, and there’s plenty of travel I want to do in Australia (my home) in the meantime.

  • November 14, 2008

    Frugal Bachelor

    Sorry for lack of originality .. but ANTARCTICA.

    Just so I could be to all 7 continents. Western Africa is the runner-up, and if I could live anywhere, it would be northern South America (Colombia, perhaps Venezuela), Mexico, possibly Brazil, or maybe Thailand .. all for the ladies.

  • November 15, 2008

    Jenn

    Kristian! TURKEY IS INCREDIBLE!!!!!! GO GO GO!!!!!
    This is hard..I would love to return to everywhere I have been esp Hong Kong, Israel and Turkey (which I am in April 2015).

    I think South America somewhere, or maybe the Trans Siberian Railroad….

  • November 15, 2008

    Justin

    Tuva

  • November 15, 2008

    Reese

    Tuscany.

    Yeah, the typical female romantic dream, but I long for the Italian countryside experience–wandering around aimlessly from small village/town to another, gaining 20 pounds along the way, and breathing in air soaked with some of the finest soil to bless this great earth.

    My husband is not necessarily jumping up and down on the idea of going there, but I read about a fall ‘mystery catacombs’ thing offered in Italy near Halloween each year, and that’s right up his alley, so maybe we can work toward a compromise.

    My first action? Checking out a lonely planet guide, see if I can cull some info about the countryside scene.

    My second action? Look more into the mystery catacombs for my partner in life and crime.

    Chris, where’s YOUR place?

  • November 15, 2008

    Mike

    This is really tough for me to figure out – I want to go back to so many places I’ve already been to: Barcelona, Rome, the Greek Islands, Mt. Washington in New Hampshire, Vegas (it’s awesome, Jessica! I was there in September)… especially since my natural tendency is to go with what I know, what I feel is “safe” (as in “I know what to expect and I liked it before”)… but here are three:

    England – to look up family records;
    Tuscany – even though “there’s nothing available” or so says The Maestro (from Seinfeld);
    Sitges, Spain – because it’s a beach town.

  • November 15, 2008

    Kiri

    Chris what a brilliant idea to get people to think about and act on getting people who dream of travel to actually do something about it.

    Myself, I can’t say anywhere. I’m one of those ones searching for some mystical Shangri-la, I can probably say it will be somewhere in Asia though, maybe southern China.

  • November 15, 2008

    Tee Poole

    Oooh. Any of the northern fjords of Iceland are on the very top of my list.

  • November 16, 2008

    kazari

    AFRICA.
    Specifically Kenya. Where my father grew up with loads of family, but they all had to leave, and got scattered.
    8 months ago, my family set a date (next November). We figured a rough budget, and I set up an automatic savings account.
    Now we are collecting guides, and talking to everyone we can think of! It’s a bit of a logistical nightmare to organise nine people in 4 cities to 1 place. Especially when we want to go to a few places that are way off the beaten track.
    The main thing is to visit where my Dad grew up – but seeing as we’re already going, there will be a trip to a game park, and maybe the coast or kilimanjaro. At this stage, who knows?
    But it will be an adventure.

  • November 16, 2008

    PizzaForADream

    Greece, on a Mediterranean cruise. You’ve got me dreaming!

  • November 16, 2008

    Coral

    Peru. Gotta see Macchu Pichu even if I don’t know how to spell it.

  • November 17, 2008

    Dwight

    My goal is to be free enough to do the following in two years *if I choose to*

    1) Quit my profession
    2) Bicycle tour North America for a year
    3) Settle in the town I like best
    4) Get a part time job in a hardware store

    Will I actually do this in two years? Probably not. But I live as if I were going to do it. It gives me an incentive to keep exercising and saving money. Regardless what I do in two years, I’ll be more free if I plan for my hypothetical journey.

  • November 18, 2008

    Daniel Noll

    The moon. Or would that be breaking the rules?

    If it is, I’ve promised myself Ladakh (in northern India) since my first world trip 11 years ago. My wife and I returned to India recently, but we were too busy enjoying everywhere else…and the season/timing wasn’t quite right to return to Ladakh because the roads were still closed.

  • November 19, 2008

    Jon Davis

    @Chris Nakafevo – went to Alaska this summer, it was amazing, if you like backpacking my friends run an awesome backpacking service complete with planes to fly you to the most remote locations – AMAZING!!

  • November 20, 2008

    Matthew Moran

    Island hopping on a sailboat, somewhere between Florida and South to Trinidad and Tobago.

  • November 21, 2008

    Jes

    I would love to go scuba-diving in the Great Barrier Reef in Australia.

  • November 21, 2008

    Anna

    Tasmania, Australia…years ago I was an exchange student in Norway and my good friend Jane was from Tasmania. I am from Alaska, so literally we were from opposite ends of the Earth…she no longer lives there, but my dream is to visit her on the mainland and then make it to Tazzie by myself! I have spent $2 a day on things a lot less valuable than a dream…thanks for helping me see that!

  • November 21, 2008

    Dave

    I’ve travelled a bit already and seen some amazing places, but mostly in North America. Couple trips to Australia and a way too brief visit to the UK, Amsterdam, and Paris. The top of my current places to see before I die is northern Italy, Tuscany, and Provence, the south of France. After that… I think the middle east would be so interesting if it wasn’t so messed up.

  • November 24, 2008

    Denise

    Budapest – to learn more about my paternal grandmother’s heritage.

  • November 26, 2008

    Taejari

    Morocco…I even saved some little Moroccan shoes my mom got as a gift from a friend she wanted to trash. I would love to behold all the colors and fabrics along with architecture.

  • November 26, 2008

    Wayne

    Easter Island. This has been a dream of mine since I was about 10 years old and wrote an essay about it.

  • December 2, 2008

    Judy

    Egypt

    One of my dogs is named Ramses.

  • December 11, 2008

    Jacqui

    Lichtenstein. I know it’s tiny and unexciting. But my maiden name is Licht so I always wanted to go!

  • December 16, 2008

    Grace

    the Orkney Islands, Scotland. Ancient, windswept and they don’t quite speak English.

  • December 28, 2008

    cassandra

    Moscow, Russia. I’ve always been enthralled by the architecture and the history of Russia. I have always wanted to see red square when it is all snowy. and also I saw a picture of a mcdonald’s with an onion dome on it and that really intrigued me.

  • January 6, 2009

    Mary

    Japan. I plan on going there as an English teacher after I graduate with my bachelors. It pays me to go, even better than saving so much! ^_^

  • January 11, 2009

    Cyndi

    Norway to the Fjords and Lappland in the winter to see the northern lights.

    I apologize for the long post but your thoughts and dreams inspired me. I needed this site years ago! I put things off because I was so “practical.” I want to urge people not to wait. Life sometimes can sideline our dreams, even in a good way with kids and careers. There is always a way if you take action.

    I’m Swedish-American and have family there. Went to Sweden in my youth, the last time was age 23. I wrote in my travel journal in 1975… “I’m definitely coming back here in 2 years!” I finally made it back in ‘06 – yes, 31 years later! It was joyful because I spent a year planning it with my Swedish immigrant father who was terminally ill with cancer. Sent him a matching map and we pored over our maps for hours by phone, he in IL and me in CA. When I went with my daughter, my dad was with us every step of the way – living vicariously. We spent time with family members he knew he’d never see again. We celebrated his life when he passed away 5 months later — it was the finest thing we ever did “together”. I’m going this June with a different daughter and we have our maps and language tapes out, making our plans.

    My next big goal is to work in Sweden for 2 years (hey, I’m only 55) :)

  • January 27, 2009

    Irina

    Maldives

  • February 13, 2009

    Louise

    I want to go in Australia, I have a friend living on Gold Coast…

  • March 11, 2009

    curiousjessica

    Thailand!
    Just because I have always wanted to go there and can never shake it from my mind :)

    I have already been to USA but MUST get back there one day soon!

  • April 21, 2009

    Andrew

    Oslo and St Peterburg.

  • April 27, 2009

    Todd

    More traveling in South America for sure. I have been to Peru and had a great time.

    Now I’d love to go to Argentina and Ecuador.

  • May 1, 2009

    Ross

    Is a world cruise considered to be one place?

  • May 4, 2009

    Andrew

    Japan. I’d like to travel to the far east (or a little ways west to make it easier for me) and see all the things I’m apparently into. I’ve been interested in their culture and media since I was just a boy and I’d try hard to get there. My other option would be New Zealand.

  • May 7, 2009

    Ron

    Hi Chris,
    Brilliant idea, specially the 2USd/day, I really love this idea.
    I have never gone out of my country ever(56years) but I do travel in my homeland, and still want to explore it before other places in the world.
    India is my next choices, Himalayas, China, plus others but I do prefer the down south of my homeland-Philippines.
    Thanks. more “thoughts” from you.

  • May 17, 2009

    Michelle

    MORROCO – my ultimate destination

    But for my 3 year plan, its THAILAND, CAMBODIA & LAOS

  • May 18, 2009

    Grant Ryan Nieddu

    Costa Rica. Life-long dream. Easily attainable. Surf. Palm Trees.
    Bring it, baby!

  • May 20, 2009

    SusanJane

    For ages I’ve wanted to go to Peru and in August my husband and I are going and we’re trekking the Inca Trail – any tips would be appreciated as we’re currently ‘in training’! ;-) That aside I’d love to go to Anuta, an isolated Polynesian island after watching a great programme about the South Pacific; we said it was perhaps the most perfect place on earth…

  • May 28, 2009

    Rossi Stoyanova

    Egypt is the first place that comes to mind, but also Australia. Saving money can bea a bit of a challenge but finding a companion will be the hard part. I’ve travelled alone and enjoyed it but I really prefer being with someone.

  • July 15, 2009

    Sophia

    definitely Namibia…Can’t wait!

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