May 6, 2010

Starting With What You Have

A couple weeks ago I went to Powell’s and heard J.D. Roth talk about taking personal responsibility over your financial life. “No one will ever care about your money as much as you do,” he said.

Very true. And you can say the same about your career, your dreams, your goals, and pretty much anything else that is personal and important. When we stop waiting for someone else to come along and make something happen for us, everything moves a lot quicker.

The reasons we fail to begin are frequently cited as: time, money, or something else external. The reasons we actually fail to begin are often: fear, inertia, or something else internal.

It’s socially acceptable to blame our indecisiveness on a lack of resources. Everyone understands when you say you’re waiting for a change in situation before beginning. But in fact, it’s relatively easy to deal with the lack of resources. What’s harder is taking the first, critical steps toward overcoming the internal obstacles.

The act of beginning something is powerful. Putting words to page, setting an unbreakable date on the calendar, making a firm commitment.

Therefore the important question is: How can you start something today?

For a long time I wanted to be a writer. Then I finally realized the obvious: if you want to be a writer, start writing! Writing is free, and no one needs to bestow a title of WRITER upon you to begin writing. The same is true with art, business, travel, and plenty of other things.

If you want to start a business, all you need is one idea. The idea doesn’t need to be big; sometimes small ideas make great small businesses. Think about one thing you know how to do that other people would also like to know how to do. Set up shop as a “very small consultant” offering help with that one thing. Make it easy to get paid. Put a PayPal button on your site and say “I do this thing. Hire me if I can help you.”

Have you ever visited another country, even just one? Chances are, someone out there wants to know how it works: what they need to do before they go, what they should do when they get there, and so on. I certainly don’t have that market covered—go ahead, do that. Become the “untourist” expert on wherever you’ve been. Alternatively, if you have a hometown, you can do the same thing in reverse. Become the world’s leading expert on Minot, North Dakota and find a way to do something with it.

If you want to display your art, start on your street. Almost every one of the coffee shops where I live, including the big chains like Starbucks, hangs art by local artists on their walls. If I were a visual artist, I’d take a day and invest $30 on buying coffee at at least 10 different shops. At every one I’d ask how the artist got her art on display. You’ll probably hear about some manager you need to talk to, so I’d get a card and politely follow-up. I’d set a goal of being in at least one shop every month for the next twelve months. If you live somewhere that doesn’t have coffee shops, go to every restaurant. Or go somewhere. The point is that it’s either free or cheap ($3 coffee) to do this. You can start today.

If you want to see the world, find a way to go on some kind of trip. Here in Portland I see that Alaska Airlines is offering 25,000 miles for any round-trip flight that includes PDX on the itinerary. So if you live here, you take a quick $89 trip to Seattle or elsewhere nearby, and then you have a free ticket to Washington, D.C., Chicago, Orlando, Vancouver, or wherever. Done.

I know that most of you don’t live in Portland, but hopefully you get the idea. These are examples, so as always, if they don’t fit your situation, think about where you are and what you’re trying to accomplish. Don’t look at what you think you lack; look at what you have and find a way to make it work.

And just like with J.D.’s book about money, no one will ever care about your goals as much as you do. Don’t wait for someone to get you started. Start yourself.

What are you trying to do? How can you get closer to it… today?

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58 Responses to “Starting With What You Have”

  1. very insightful article..It is indeed very true.. we have to start with what we have and work on that..

    This article inspires to be start working on my dreams and get rid of procastination.

  2. Chris – Another great post. The fact of the matter is, with a business, or with anything in life, if you want something to happen you have to take a small step, you have to get started. So many of life’s undertaking appear so massive that they appears impossible because we’re overwhelmed due to the sheer size. But you can’t climb that mountain without going through the foothills. You can’t get to Everest basecamp without acclimatizing. You can’t make the push to the summit without tackling the Hillary Step. It all starts with a step.

    I’m looking forward to incorporating a lot of your philosophy in my upcoming series about your unconventional guides. The idea is to review the guides as a way to introduce readers to you and your sites content, and hopefully bring some positive feedback so they can make a sound decision about investing the time to take them all in. This series will serve as launch-pad for next release of the Empire Building Kit.

    keep up the great work,
    Mike

  3. One of the BIG truths in life, that at the end, is not that big, the thing is, it deals with BIG issues, those internal issues, those fears that sometimes we have even get use to live with them, we hold them close to us, and at the end, the thing is: let go, let go and breath, breath and be free.

    Life is made of little things, little steps, decisions. The thing is, we are the writers of our own stories, so u better enjoy it!!

    Am living one of my dreams now, scary? yes. Just opened my own store, but there is nothing like the feeling of knowing u are doing what you heart wants to.

    Sandy

  4. May 13, 2010

    McKenna Cameron

    Have been struggling for a while with corporate job vs. self-employment. This week I lost a patient (I’m a nurse) and when I asked for the next day off, they couldn’t give it to me because of staffing. That was it for me. I would’ve given it to me and used outside registry if I had to. I wanted to ask “When was the last time you lost a patient in this unit and you can’t give me one personal day?” Instead I got busy in the wee hours when my patients are asleep planning my imminent escape. Thanks for this post – very timely!!

  5. not too long ago, i started researching about quitting your job and traveling. of course, your blog post with the same title came up in my google search. it seemed like we would never get there. almost 18 months later, and we are finally doing it! i must say, reading your blog really solidified our decision to do this. and here you still are, giving great advice to fellow adventure-seekers! it is really important to start with what you have and from where you are, and to remember the journey of a thousand miles begins with that first step!

  6. I loved this post when it first hit and have thought about it a lot since then. Your posts are often very relevant for me, chiming into where I am, and this seems to be the same for others. I’m not sure how you do that! After many months of planning my voice in the world and learning about blogging as one way forward, this post arrived as I was just starting out – it certainly gave me courage and helped me overcome the resistance that often lurks around any creative venture. Thank you!

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  8. simply great article.

    ” The reasons we actually fail to begin are often: fear, inertia, or something else internal.”

    rightly triggered.

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